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The Secrets to
Pleasure, Boundaries &
Authentic Expression
~ a Wheel of Consent© Masterclass ~

How to use Pleasure & Boundaries
for Emotional & Spiritual Growth


April 28th - 30th 2023

The Foundations for Conscious & Healthy Relationships

🌿 For a relationship where love can thrive, we need to always start with Truth.

🌿 In order to live in Truth, we need to master the capacity to authentically communicate our boundaries, needs & desires.

🌿 Having and expressing boundaries is one of the pillars of a healthy relationship.

🌿 Learning to become a master at setting and expressing boundaries is one of the most self-empowering practices one can engage in.

🌿 Through boundaries you learn to keep yourself safe and only when you feel safe is your body able to relax. A relaxed body allows you to step into your higher self.

🌿 Conscious boundary setting will unlock the magic of each moment, enabling you to fully surrender to each moment and each interaction safely.

🌿 Touch is a beautiful way to practice those skills. However, these skills are equally valuable and useful in daily life, work life or whenever you need to set boundaries. You will learn how to set boundaries in such a way that people will appreciate you speaking your truth.

🌿 We also need to learn how to ask for what we want, without making assumptions, so we can fully step into self-nourishment.

🌿 Most of us are holding back on that, leaving us unfulfilled, and wondering "what if..."

What is The Wheel of Consent?

The Wheel of Consent is a powerful modality that will help you live your truth in each moment.

The Wheel of Consent can also give you deep understanding on how to increase sensitivity in your body and really tune in to what feels right for you. What is pleasurable to you? How do you ask for what you want and need?

Understanding this practice can be life changing, healing and dramatically improve your relationships and interactions with others.

You will learn how to...

Own & express your truth unapologetically
🌿 Own & express your boundaries, needs & desires unapologetically
🌿 Learn how to make your own choices and let go of unhealthy pleasing tendencies

🌿 Wake up sensuality & take responsibility for your own pleasure
🌿 Increase your capacity to love
🌿 Identify acts of toxic love and how to transform them into acts of healthy love

🌿 Understand the dynamics of giving & receiving
🌿 Gain empowerment skills – noticing, valuing & trusting desires, having the courage to ask for what you want, and feeling safe enough to receive.

(Re)Building Trust

Practising and learning to master the content and exercises presented in the Conscious Relating Foundations Masterclass is one of the most effective ways of (re)building trust in yourself.


Trusting in your desires, your boundaries and what is important for you

allows you to (re)build a deep trust in yourself and is one of the deepest forms of self-love.

Spirituality through the Wheel of Consent

The Wheel of Consent will, in a very subtle way, teach you 4 powerful spiritual aspects of life:

🌿 𝗦𝘂𝗿𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿 and the art of how to do that in completely safety.

🌿 𝗜𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗴𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆 how to be radically honest with yourself and others in a loving way.

🌿 𝗚𝗿𝗮𝘁𝗶𝘁𝘂𝗱𝗲 which increases our overall well-being and sense of self-worth.

🌿 𝗚𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗼𝘀𝗶𝘁𝘆 how to give from a truly open heart, without needing anything in return.

The Wheel of Consent & Master Plant Integration

This retreat can also help you integrate the insights and learnings from your Master Plant journey(s).

Most trauma, conditioning and not stepping into our full potential has come through relating to others. Therefore a large part of the healing & change needs to be done while relating to others.

We can make promises to ourselves about speaking up for ourselves more, but ultimately those promises can only be manifested when relating to others.

The modality of the Wheel of Consent is very suitable & helpful to do that in the most efficient & loving way.

Masterclass Content

We will do practical partner exercises where we will be exploring these areas in a playful way and have sharing circles to discuss what we are experiencing. You are never forced to do anything you don't want to do. We encourage and empower you to speak up when you, for example, need more time or need a moment to yourself. This is a safe, fully clothed environment.

Wheel of Consent origin

Parts of this workshop are originally created by Betty Martin, founder of The Wheel of Consent concept.
Roger is a certified facilitator of The Wheel of Consent.

For more information watch this or one of the other video’s on the The Wheel of Consent or go to: or



15:00 Arrival & Registration
15:30 Start of workshop
19:30 Expected ending time oF workshop


09:30 Arrival
10:00 Start of workshop
14:00 Lunch break
15:00 Workshop continues
19:30 Expected ending time of workshop


10:00 Arrival
10:30 Start of workshop
14:00 Lunch break
15:30 Workshop continues
19:00 Expected ending time of workshop


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Roger Vigyan

Roger is the founder of the Tantra Secrets - Consciousness Expansion Academy and the lead workshop facilitator. He has an extensive background in tantra, daoism, energy reading, energy play, hypnosis (sexual & regular), consent work, authentic communication, trauma release, childhood de-conditioning, sacred sexuality and meditation. He is an officially Certified Facilitator of the Wheel of Consent©.

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Female Practicioner (TBA)

There will be a high Level female Tantric practitioner assisting to represent and deeply embody the Feminine principle.

The Facilitators




Workshop fee 425€

This is a non-residential retreat, though meals and accommodation are also available for an extra charge. Camping is free.

Shared accommodation 25€/night

Private accommodation 50€/night

Breakfast 5€

Lunch 10€

Dinner 8€

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